I love her

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i not comfortable telling her that i love her how would i go about doing that since she is my friend and 3 years older than and i'm not all that good looking

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What in the world do your looks have to do with anything?? Love is about how you two FEEL about each other. It has nothing to do with looks! Looks change over the years. Do you really think that looks matter to people who really love each other? If so, does the way you look at age 20 matter to how you care about each other at age 70?

You need to get a better grasp on what love is really about. Love is about long, long term caring. Looks are meaningless in the long term. EVERYBODY changes. EVERYBODY gets old. If looks are all you care about, you are going to fail.

If your concern is having a friend get into something more strong, I have tips here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/howto/friendlover.asp

but you have to get rid of this childish obsession about looks. That is going to destroy your relationship if you keep thinking that is what is important.

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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