She Flirts, She Has a Boyfriend

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 25 years old. I start to fall in love with a woman of 33 years old. This is a first time in my life that a feeling like this happens to me. Though I tell myself many times that I am doing something crazy and impossible, I still cannot forget her. She treats me so good that I cannot control myself but it may be also due to her sexual attractiveness.

However, one night, when asked why she did not take her car to go outside, she said with a smile that her boyfriend would take her back home because she would comeback late at night. It really shocked me. I don't understand what she has done for me is a question of normal relationship or a question of love. Many times when talking with me that she put off the phone when someone called her (maybe her boy friend) and just say it is nothing but really told me that her boyfriend called her.

She never hesitates to use the word boy friend in front of me but she shows sometimes very sexually attractive to me. Her behavior to me makes me very confusing. However, I would like to stay away from her but I still cannot forget her. We have to meet each other two times per week because of the office work. What should I do?

I thank you for your kind consideration and waiting for your help Advice
Lots of women and men LOVE to flirt, it is a normal part of their lives. In France EVERYBODY flirts, from ages 8 to 88! Flirting is about having fun and feeling good and making others feel good.

Enjoy your flirting with her, but if she has a boyfriend, I would look for a SINGLE woman to actually start becoming involved with.

-- from Jenn
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