What Do We Talk About

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hey, i wanna go out with this really shy, but nice girl in my class. sometimes we talk, and things are great, she feels comfortable talkin to me, but the problem is starting a conversation. shes never started one before, and im not sure what exactly to say.

now i know all women are different and have diffrent interests and reactions and stuff like that, but what are some lines i can use to start a casual conversation. what do i say to make it general and cheerful. and i can only ask her about her interests and other stuff after i make initial contact, and i need to start a conversation

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RomanceClass.com Advice
I have an entire list of fun conversation topics -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/65758

but remember this should never be about "Let's talk about item 1A today" ... it should always be about two friends just enjoying their time together. So talk about things she ENJOYS talking about! Find out her family member names, her pet names, her favorite TV shows and favorite bands. Then talk about those things. Ask what they were doing over the weekend, what the show was about. what she thinks of the latest songs. There are new things happening every day in the world - if you check out your local paper's website every morning there are probably 20 new things to discuss!

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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