He Got a Friend to Send his Break Up Message

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i went to school one day and my ex's friend came up to me and said XX doesnt want to go out with u anymore and i said ok and then i said that i already knew and he said how and he told my bff that last week and during math class his friend was like r u going out with anyone anymore and i said no i broke up with him and XX said no i broke up with u and i was like no u didn't he was like i got my friend to do it and i said thats not what he said and i was like all he said was that he doesnt want to go out with u anymore

i said that if he was a real man and wanted to breakup with me then he should of done it himself because im your girlfriend and if u were a real man thats what u would have done

on the way to chior later that day he said he wanted to get back together with me and i dont know what to do please help me?????????

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RomanceClass.com Advice
It is really really silly for you guys to be arguing about "who broke up with who". Does it really matter at all if both of you WANTED to break up, who said it first? It does not.

That being said NEITHER of you were mature to tell the other to their face. It was really childish for him to send a friend with a message - and equally childish for you to try to "claim victory" in this area.

If you guys really want to make this work again, you have to make a strong commitment to each other to talk to each other IN PERSON when you are not happy with the relationship in the first place - never mind when you actually want to throw in the towel. You guys should have been discussing the problems long before any talk of abandoning the relationship came up.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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