He's Being Sweet - I'm Being a Jerk

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
there's this guy at school i like him alot and he treats me very well like buying me stuff all the time and stuff like that but,he's just not attracting and i don't like him more than a friend but i kinda wanna be more than frieds but my friends make fun of him and i go along with it.

what do i do? should we hook up or what?

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RomanceClass.com Advice
You really need to rethink your priorities here. You enjoy making fun of a guy to his face, when he's treating you well? Heck, most girls on this site would LOVE to have a guy that treats them well!

You're going to learn in life that "being attractive" is probably the least important thing about a guy. We all age, we all get wrinkly and old and so on. Your body isn't important. What is important is how you treat other people and how you like each other. So far what I see is that he treats you really well, cares for you and respects you. I see that you MIStreat him frequently and in public. The real question is, should he really date you, given how poor of a friend you're being to him right now. Maybe it's time to prove to him that you are worthy of the attention he's giving to you.

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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