me and my x boyfriend decided to break up because we argues too much

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
me and my x boyfriend decided to break up because we argues too much but i still love him more than any thing and he still loves me but he doesnt want to go through that again and i cant stop thinkin bout him! what do i do and how can i get him to come back to me? i have tried to act like it didnt bother me and ive tried to act like i liked other people but me and this boy went out for 9 months and i cant let him go! i am only 14 and i dont know what to do because i love him so much! Advice
Nine months is a long time to go out with someone, especially at 14. It's no wonder you're having a hard time getting over him! Since you both still care for each other, you're going to have to figure out why you're fighting and then stop whatever it is. When you find yourself about to fight, cool it down and say, "we can work through this" rather than starting to yell at each other. There's a wealth of knowledge about how to have constructive discussions instead of arguing. Talk with your guidance counsellor at school about how to resolve issues. He or she is trained in this sort of stuff.

I wish you luck!


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