i was sufferin from depression and stress

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend split up 3 months ago because i was sufferin from depression and stress.she never new this so i ended it by tellin her i was not ready for anything serious.we were going out for two years.We ave recently been seeing each other and she now knows the truth.she advised me to get help from doctor.i ave and am on course of anti depressants.we are takin it slow as in gradually gettin back.She has made some new friends and goes out with them alot.i get scared and ask her tons of questions about if she is behavin.also if she wants to meet guys and that.I really trust her and want us to work out in long run.just afraid that she might meet someone else and want to be with them.Is my illness makin me feel like this and any advice on how to stop being so down and thinkin the worst.love her loads and she says she does to.hate being like this and just want to have a nice future.thanks

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We have a whole section on jealousy and how to deal with it. Stop by and check it out!
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682

Since you have a problem with depression, that will certainly affect the relationship, but it sounds like your girlfriend will be there for you which is wonderful. She's a keeper.

For your worries about her meeting someone else, yes of course she'll meet dozens of people, but the core thing about dating someone is that you willfully choose not to go after anyone new. You choose to turn down all the other opportunties, better or worse, to be with the one that you say you love. And she has done that for you, and she will remain with you. So don't screw it up by worrying that she's going to jump ship!

Good luck!


-- from Marc
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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