i stiil like her cause i already went out with her two times

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
look i wento ut with this girl and i stiil like her cuase i allready went out with her two times and the first i wnt out with her i broke up with ehr we went out for four months and i brke up with her cuase i went out with her sisiter instead and after two moths i brke up with her sister and then i went back out with the girl i was orignally going out with and then this girl just broke up with me like a week ago and now she told me the reason why she broke up with me cuase she siad that she couldent forgive me about what i did to her cuasew she really loved me that i went out with her sister and now she cant forgive me so what should i do cuase i wanther back but it think if we do go out again for a thurd time that she stilll will think about what i did to her in the past so pleasee help me i need help please help

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Remind yourself of this rule: don't date sisters and don't date best friends. They will always get you in trouble with both of them and you'll be left out in the cold.

I don't think you'll ever get this girl's trust back after you went out with her sister. There's too much built-in jealousy and sister rivalry going on already, and then you toss a mutual boyfriend in the mix and you're guaranteed a problem. You will always have it hanging over your head.

If you still want to go out with her, despite these issues, then do your best to convince her that the only reason you went out with her sister is because she reminded you of this girl. That you were looking for another woman who was just like this girl. Make it all about her and you might have a shot. But never, ever say that the sister is better at anything, or you will lose this girl.

Good luck!

--Jenn



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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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