School Broke Us Up - I Want Her Back

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Long story, but to make it short me and my ex girlfriend were together off and on for about 4 years starting at the end of highschool. we went off to seperate colleges and tried the long distance thing but it didn't work out. i started seeing someone else and it killed her more than i will ever know.

it was about a year and a half of me and this other girl being off and on. finally i realized i was being stupid and ditched the other girl. still there was something holding me back from committing fully to my girl of over 4 years. i ended up going to italy for a semester and it was the beginning of the time where i realized how important she was to me.

i got back for xmas break and things were ok. i had 4 weeks before i had to leave again for school so before i left we talked and decided that we could see other people and if we found someone else we would tell each other. well she found someone else and before i could tell her everything i had been going through she started seeing him a lot.

i came back for spring break to try and win her back and it ended awesome. I mean she felf awful for cheating on her new boyfriend but i felt it went really good. so the time came for me to go back to school and about two weeks later she tells me that things are over between us. she just graduated school and already has a teaching job for next year. i still have a couple years of school left and the guy she is with now is like 3 years older then her.

we have had a few talks about things and she feels really confused about who she is. that almost kills me more than not being with her. i love her so much and know that she is meant for me. i can't get over this and we are trying to do the whole friends thing right now and we even work at the same job during the summer, but it kills me more and more everyday.

what should i do to get her to come back?

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RomanceClass.com Advice
I have an entire ebook on how to get your ex back -

http://www.romanceclass.com/ebooks/back_m.asp

plus an entire batch of tips -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/9

It is NOT easy, there is no quick easy answer. It takes a ton of work and a ton of determinations. You need to read all of those tips, be ready for the challenge and then work through it. If you're asking for me to say "just say these 4 words and she'll glue herself to your side", it won't work. Nothing in life worth having is that easy.

-- Lisa

-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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