he slept with someone a few months back

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together for two and a half years. Almost a year ago he moved to a different country with his family. We are still together in a way and know that our feelings and relationship is serious. We have discussed the future and are both really happy with being together. The thing is that he slept with someone a few months back and we talked about it and sorted it out but, i still feel awkward about it. I've knoe found out he gives this person money for clothes and to go out. I don't know what this means and everytime i bring it up with him he has a go at me. I'm so confused, should i stay with him?

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To be honest, it sounds like he is trying to start a new relationship with this other person.

I assume this other person is where he moved to. He's lonely and long distance relationships suck. Some people can't handle them.

I'm sure he still has feelings for you, but he may not be able to handle the distance.

For your own sake, ask him if this is the case, but make sure you will be ok with it and not yell. If it is the case, tell him you think it is better for both of you to remain friends, but move on. You need someone close to you who can give you what he needs just as much as he does, too.

Best wishes,

-- from Marc
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