i just want 2 be happy but i dont think i can be

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
uh hi.im 15 and i need advise.this might seem stupid but i like this girl and i havent seen her since school ended and she said she would get in contact with me over the summer and i thought ok untill like a couple of weeks ago i was in a chat room and i met this girl and shes really cool but she lives in another state and weve been talkin every day since then and she sent me a picture and when i saw her i was like in disbeliefe she was like just how i imagened her and i sent her a picture of me and she thinks im hot and 4 some odd reason i cant get her out of my head and i dont know what 2 do.is that normal?i havent even met her but i like her a lot.shes beautiful and she is like the sweetest girl ive ever met.and i dont know what 2 do.is it silly?i honestly dont know all of my friends would probly make fun of me if they knew so ur the only person that knows. am i suposed 2 keep talkin 2 the internet girl or am i suposed 2 go 4 girl here?i would reather go 4 the internet 1 but i want 2 be with some 1 and i know that if i was were the internet girl was i would be with her but its not like that and i just want 2 be happy but i dont think i can be i see every 1 else in the world happy with the person ther with and i gave up on love but know i want it and i dont know what 2 do im like totally lost.so if u would please help me.thanks.

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RomanceClass.com Advice
At your age, it's really hard to pull off a long-distance relationship. It's possible, but realistically it's just not what you need right now. Keep the online girl as a close friend, share with her as you would a best friend, but don't promise her that you won't see other girls. Go after the IRL girl and you'll be much better off.

Good luck!

Jenn


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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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