You need independent income

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
pls help me. i have a problem and i really dont know what to do abt it.

my relationship with my boyfriend has been good so far, except for the normal quarrels and stuff. but there is something that really disturbs me and sometimes i even wonder if i should stay with him or move on.

my boyfriend gets an allowance every month for studying. But each time he gets it, his father will start asking him for money to pay for his loans, bills, fines. then, my bf will have to spend the rest of his money to buy groceries; rice, food...whatever for his family. he ends up not having any cash left for his transportation and food! i know i should be proud of him for putting his family above everything else. for your info, sometimes i dont get to meet my boyfriend for 2 whole months because he cant afford to go out!

i worry about our future. how are we goin to start a family if everytime he gets money, his father asks for it? is it possible for us to get married if he cant even have enough money for himself? im so confused. i really want to spend my life with him. but there is just so many things on my mind right now.

should i wait for him, and hope that things will change? pls pls pls help me. what should i do?? Advice
These problems are not going away until one or both of you have independent incomes. You will still get hit up for money, but at least you will have enough to live on yourselves.

Good luck,

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