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I've been dating this guy on and off for the past three months and i'm now in love with him.The problem is when were a couple I have doubts about my feelings for him. I feel trapped and like I don't have freedom. he's a really great guy and he's good to me. But these feelings and doubts make it hard to be with him.I think the reason why i've started having doubts is that my ex has recently come back in my life in the past two months and I am still totally in love with him. But then i go back and forth between them, because when i'm without the new guy i miss him and want to see him. What should i do? Advice
Have a long honest talk with them (separately, of course) and describe how you feel. If you have a good relationship with either of them, they will be eager to discuss your problem and help you find a solution. It sounds like a hard thing to do and it will be, but open communication is one of the most important things about a good relationship.

Start talking to the one that seems most open first. That will give you some practice for talking with the other one. I wish you luck!

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