She broke up with him

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i went on a trip for baseball to las vegas and i talked to one of my really close friends i told him about the story about me and the girl i love and he said "i could tell its true love you shouldnt give up talk to her when you get home from this trip" and so i did during that trip home all i could think about was her on our way back our bus stoped at a gas station and i saw u cute fish made out of a rock it was a piranha and thats the name i called my love its a long story so i bought it and when i got home i put it in a cute little box with a bow and called her she said she didnt want to talk to me and that she dosent love me anymore she said all of the feelings she had for me are gone and it broke my heart so i just went to her house and talked to her i gave her the gift i bought her and she said oh thank you i told her i loved her and that she was the only person i could think about on this trip i told her she ment the world to me and she kept telling me i dont want to be with you its all done i dont have those feelings for u anymore i told her i didnt understand i told her i did so many cute things to try and be with you when we broke up the first time i called everyday and just tried to be with you and u didnt try one bit she said well what were u expecting from me i started to cry and so did she she kept asking me if i was done and i told her i missed my old baby the one i fell in love with she said she dead and gone she said well you told me all that you needed to so im leaving were done i dont want to be with you and she left i dont know what to do this is the 3 time she has done this to me it hurts so bad i loved her to death i felt she was my one and only i could see myself with her forever we did things together we have never done before and that ment alot to me and now i feel i lost all of the things i was supposed to lose to, to a person who loved me and i feel like she didnt love me at all i told her she took me for granted but she denied it i asked her why she choose a club over 2 years and she denied that too she said she loves going to clubs and she is not gonna stop going she said she is gonna go whenever she feels like it she said were done ok dont call me after this dont try to talk to me and its hard for me but her last words to me were were done ok so im gonna go and she left i just sat in my car and cried it hurt so bad i dont know what to do do u have any advice for my please help me this girl was my first love and she means the world to me i tried having a heart to heart talk with her but she just said she dosent have the same feelings for me please help me thank you. im a 17 years old and i have been with the girl i love for about 2 years.

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My advice is to try to remain friends with her and not push her or beg her to come back. She obviously wants to split with you and told you directly in the most forceful terms. So all you can do is be there for her when she needs someone to talk to. Call her every two weeks or say just to ask her how she is doing. Be happy when you talk to her-- few people want to talk with someone who is not happy.

Someday she may come back to you, and maybe not. Meanwhile, you will have her friendship which is a good thing to have.

We have tips on how to get over a break-up, take a look at: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/54875

My best wishes to you!
George

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