Become her friend

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
okay, i was in love with this girl for almost a eyar and a half and we never really hit it off but alot of the things she did made me think she liked me. Alot of confiedence issues held me back but i got the ocurage up and agve her a valentines day present and wrote her a note, she blew it off after telling me we would at least become friends. I basically have amillion reasons to be over this and start new but to be honest i keep going back to her. rust me i've tried everything and to be honest i still can't get her out of my head, how can i either get over this or should i maybe try again? Byt the way i'm 16 Advice
She gave you the answer of what to do.

Take her at her word and become a friend of hers. Talk to her whenever you can and pay attention to what she is saying and respond accordingly. Build up trust and honesty with her and compliment her on her hair or clothing.

Given time, she may find you attractive enough to date. However, this is not something that will happen overnight.

Best wishes!

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