Groom's brother spends night with his girlfriend

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
WE'VE BEEN TOGATHER FOR4.5 YEARS IN THE PAST YEAR SHE'S MEET
SINGLE GIRLS AT WORK SHE SAYS SHE NEEDS HER SPACE AND HAS BEEN HANGING OUT WITH THEM ALOT AFTER WORK. RECENTLY SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T HAVE LOVING FEELINGS FOR ME ANY MORE AND SAID LETS TAKE IT SLOW SHE WENT OUT OF TOWN FOR A FRIENDS WEDDING CAME BACK WHEN WE TALKED SHE WAS BEING HATEFUL TOWARD ME. SHE WOULDN'T CALL AND I DIDN'T CALL HER GIVING HER SPACE THE NEXT WEEKEND I FOUND OUT A GUY SPENT THE NIGHT AT HER HOUSE SHE ADMITTED IT SAID IT WAS AN OLD FRIEND THE BROTHER OF THE GROOM HE WAS UP VISITING A FRIEND
AND CAME TO SEE HER BUT THAT THEY WERE JUST OLD FRIENDS I ASKED IF SHE SLEPT WITH HIM SHE SWEARS SHE DIDN'T BUT THAT SHE WANTED BREAK UP BUT STAY FRIENDS AND THAT SHE WANTED TO DO THE GIRL THING AND NOT WORRY ABOUT HAVING A COMMITMENT OR BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW NOW HER AND HER FRIENDS
AGE GOING TO FLORIDA THIS WEEKEND AND LAS VEGAS THE FOLLOWING WEEKEND I LOVE THIS WOMEN VERY MUCH AND TOLD HER I WANT TO WORK THINGS OUT SHE SAID FRIENDS FOR NOW AND WOULD SEE LATER OWN. SHE GETTING READY TO TURN 40 SOON IS SHE GOING THROUGH SOME CHANGE IN LIFE? DID SHE CHEAT? IS SHE CHEATING? IS IT OVER ? SHOULD I HANG IN THERE TO SEE IF WE CAN WORK THINGS OUT? THANKS

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RomanceClass.com Advice
This could be a "middle age crisis" and she may just need to be on her own for a while.

You really have no choice but to let her do it. Remain friends as she suggests, and be there whenever she needs you. Be a very good friend and share her feelings as well as your own. Talk as much as you can and develop a sense of trust and caring. Be honest and reliability.

When she sees what she is missing, she will probably come running back to you.

If you don't act well with her, probably she won't come back.

Good luck!
George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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