I wrote this guy i liked 3 secret admirer notes

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hey,
I wrote this guy i liked 3 secret admirer notes which were low key they basically said i liked him. Anyway i have been trying to get up the courage to talk to him and i said hi twice the second time didnt go too well i was in the hall and saw him coming he was alone so i said hi but i guess he didnt hear me so i tugged at his arenm and he turned around and i said hi he looked at me like i was crazy. We are both in the same club at school and i have friends that talk to him but i think he hates me im pretty sure he knows i like him but i dont know what to do. his parents own this plant shop that me and my mom sometimes go to and he works there so i see him sometimes. I dont want to scare him off i jsut want to talk to him but im afraid he hates me. He has a rep of being a jerk but most of the time he is ok he is only 1 grade above me so i think i have a chance. He works hard in school he is in pre calculus so he is smart for only a sophmore. Anyway maybe he is too busy in school to have a gf what do i do and how do i talk to him? Please help!!!

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Keep on doing what you are doing.

Don't imagine that he doesn't like you... he is probably just shy.

When you pass him in the hallway, give him a big smile, look him in the eye and say hi using his name. If he keeps treating you bad perhaps it is time to give up. But my guess is that he will start smiling back and saying hi to you.

Talk to him in the club if you can. That's a perfect place getting to know someone better.

Don't write anymore secret admirer notes. You need to build up your courage to tell him that you are developing feelings for him and confess you are the secret admirer.

My guess is that he is shy and you will need to help him with that. So go for it and remember you only get one chance at life so live it to the max.

Good luck!
George

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