She recently doubted wether she should stay with me as she told me that she had an ex who was 55 years old and she always mentioned him

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Dear George,

I have read your emails and must say I enjoyed reading them.I have the following question you might help were I recently encountered with a women.

I date this girl since 3 months and is 8 years older than me im 27 years and she 35.Now when i met her she was quite sad over a short relation (3 weeks)she just had but we got togehter ans stayed for about 3 months.

She recently doubted wether she should stay with me as she told me that she had an ex who was 55 years old and she always mentioned him.Although this she still stayed with me and always said she liked me.Now i found out that they are contacting often and one day she got a message at 0000 and I went to check her phone and saw his message.I over reacted by sending him an sms saying that she was with me since a few momths and he got mad and called her not to mention waking her up.Now the thing is she sent me home as she was said.What do u thin about it? i have not contacted her for a day what should I do?

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You should contact your girlfriend.

Apologize again for interfering in her communication with her ex. Find out if she is willing to get back together with you. My guess is that she will be willing to come back with you.

Have a long conversation with her and honestly discuss what her feelings are for this ex. She may say some things you don't want to hear, but it is better to find out now that later. Hopefully, she will say that she doesn't care a lot for her ex.

Hope this helps some!
George

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