dont give an answer epecting me to accept her ...rather advice me how to get rid of her!!

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi my name is s*...my boyfren has an female friend..they talk n text n i dont appreciate that at all.. i cry and did talk it out with my boyfriend..we have been dating for 4years now, will plan for amrriage later ..i dont know where to get with that question but i just cant stand that girl at all... well dont give an answer epecting me to accept her ...rather advice me how to get rid of her!!
thanking you in advance..

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My custom is to give advice the way I see it, not as you see it.

I can't advise you to get rid of her because that is the wrong way to approach this problem. First you have to address your problem of jealousy. Jealousy is a nasty habit that can ruin a good relationship. Relationships are built on trust and faithfulness (and a lot of other good things such as calmness, attentativeness, friendship, mutual attraction).

Trust is one of the big items on that list. You need to learn to trust him. Whenever those jealous thoughts come into your mind, tell them to get lost. Keep doing that until the thoughts finally give up and stop bugging you.

If you plan on getting married, you will have to get used to him interacting with other women or you face a marriage full of mistrust and unhappiness.

Regarding that woman, you could have a talk with you boyfriend and tell him that your intuition tells you that there is something wrong with his relationship with her and that you would appreciate it if he could stop talking with her. If you present it calmly like that, it may work.

Good luck,
George


-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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