Has cheated on me 3 times with his X girlfriend and he always texts her still

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
okay here it goes.. I am 20 years old and my Bf is 23. MY BF who i have been with since September 10th.. 04.. Has cheated on me 3 times with his X girlfriend and he always texts her still.. and talks to her.. and i found out the last 2 times of him cheating on me.. not from him BUT FROM HER! and it was true. we have a house together now. and whenever he leaves i am terrified he is going to cheat on me agian. i love him with all my heart.. i truely do.. and there is a conection with us. but HE EXPECTS SO MUCH OUT OF ME. i have to clean the house do the laundery always have dinner ready get up in the morning EVERY MORNING AT 5:30 and make him breakfast and lunch before he goes to work. He texts her all the time. and everytime we get in a fight.. he all of a sudden gets more texts from her. And whenever i am in the car and start dazing off or crying.. becuase i am thinking of him and her and the things he tells her.. he says i should get over it or were not going to work.. I DONT KNOW HOW to get him to understand I NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT..AND KNOW WHY.. BUT HE WONT TALK!!! and i love him to death it would be so hard for me to leave him. i left him once and went down to indiana with my family.. i live in ILL. he actually came down to indiana to come pick me up. but when i got back he was texting her agian. i love him so much.. and well now he says the texting has stoped.. i dont know what to do.. PLEASE HELP ME!

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He's walking all over you like you're a carpet!

And he is using the old "I don't want to talk about it" flim-flam.

When you said he cheated on you 3 times since Sept 10, I wonder if that means he slept with her or not. If he is sleeping with her you are really a glutton for punishment.

Put away the Mop'n'Glow and give this guy the good cleaning that he deserves.

He has to help around the house (I assume you are both working) and stop texting his ex. If he refuses, you either walk or continue to be walked on.

He is way out of line!
Good luck,
George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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