my girlfriend seems to be really flirty

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my girlfriend seems to be really flirty

ok i am a little concerned nd i think i have the right to be ..ok me and my gf i love her so much and she sais she loves me alot to and her friends say im the greatest thing thats ever happend to her ... but its like she really flirty ...and i dont kno what to do i get jealous i guess but i just dont want to to tell her to stop ...do you think i could mabe aske one of her friends to talk to u about it ?.

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My guess is that one reason you are attracted to her is because she is flirty.

The problem then comes up simply because she IS flirty. You are going to have to live with it or break up with her. Being jealous is not an option. All it will do is make everyone unhappy and you'll end up breaking up anyway.

Don't try to change someone's natural way of being. It just won't work.

You can work on your jealousy by attacking the jealous feelings and say to it "Go away, she loves me and won't hurt me." Say this 100 times as the feelings arise and eventually they will go away.

Good luck!
George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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