My ex girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago because I was talking to other girls

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been with my ex for 10 yrs and the last 5 were not the best. (I’m 29 she 26) My ex girlfriend broke up with me 6 months ago because she found out I was talking to other girls...(Not sleeping) but just talking. Many times I have told her I am very sorry and I love her with all my heart but she doesn't seem to believe me. Throughout the six months, she has contact me or would call my mother to say hi. However the last three months she hasn't called me or my mom. However I do call her time to time and we do talk and when we do talk all she keeps saying is how she wants to move out of NYC and she hates her job, hates her life...anyway Last night I emailed her expressing my feeling for her and she reply with the following..My questions is do I still have hope are should I just move on? I love her and I want to marry her. I've asked her out on two dates and her answer would be I'm sorry but I can't today. Her reply:

"If I would have had a magic ball 5 years ago I would have never imagine my life right now. I have many regrets these days the "I wish I would have saved, I wish I would have selected a different career, I wish I would have left to Delaware last year, I wish, I wish....". I wonder I pray every day and night for strengh, courage, health and happiness. My outlook on life is totally different. I have come to realize I have great friends and I am loved by my family (as insane as they may be at times).

I do not believe in love any more. The love aspect, I was hurt and I don't believe in people anymore. Is like I woke up and everything in the "wilda world changed". I am closed to love, I don't believe people feel love, I only believe in me and what I felt or feel. But I have to admit I have learned to love me, learned to love that who I am is not bad, otherwise I would have no friends. I work like crazy and it takes my mind of things. I loved you with my heart and soul, but I guess things happened for a reason.

I know you will find someone that will love you and you will forget that I existed in your life. I don't hate you, I pray that God sends you a girl that is meant for you, that you become successful and all your dreams come true.

You were my first and ONLY love, I have spent may sleepless crying nights wondering what I did wrong in my life, as I highly believe in Karma and I just can put my finger on it. Only God knows my destiny and I am assured he will lead me the right way.

Thank you for thinking of me and sending me this email, thank you for helping us with all that stuff yesterday. Tell your mom the room now looks good.

Thank you and good luck to you 2."

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She has made it very clear where she stands.

She wants to fly away from NYC and that includes you.

Unless you could convince her to take you with her, I think you should call it quits and move on.

Sorry the advice is so gloomy, but that's the way I see it.

Best wishes to you!
George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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