my episope being im perfectly fine then *snap* im going crazy questioning whether i still love him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old FemaleI (19) have been w/ my b/f (21) for almost 3 yrs. 3 mths ago we bought a house togeter, a mth or so before that i had my first episode and i have had 2 others the last one being the worst. my episope being im perfectly fine then *snap* im going crazy questioning wither i still love him or not and if im were i want to be. then the next day im somewhat ok again. just questioning why i was thinking that why til weeks later im perfectly fine again. i dont know whats going on. i still want to be with him and get married. i know this. but i want to be happy. i dont want to give up on everything we have put into this, and the dreams we have built together. i just dont know if i can keep doing this to myself and to him, please answer, anything will help me now.
RomanceClass.com AdviceYou need to talk to a professional counselor and get some advice based on interviews with you.
At some point your boyfriend may become involved in the counseling.
You certainly don't want to commit yourself more deeply while you are suffereing these episodes. They are trying to tell you something.
Good luck!
George
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