my heart melted i was soo happy to be with him.SO we spent about an hour saying our Goodbye's

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I'm a 14 yr old girl and i'm going to be a Freshmen this coming school year. I have been friends with this guy for about 4 yrs and we have always been close and have a great time together.During our 8th grade year he moved about 50miles away and the day he left it was really emotional for me so i gave him a great big hug and said don't u ever forget me. About a month later he started talking to me on msn messenger and he told me that when i hugged him goodbye that day he felt like he had made a huge mistake not telling me how he fely about me..At that moment we opened up to each other and i told him that i had liked him since 5th grade..We said that we would hang out when he moved back home the next month. but when he moved back we had no classes together and barley ever saw each other i knew that we were falling apart but i wasn't sure if he didn't like me anymore..One day we were all outside and i heard him call my name me and my best friend were talking so she just assumed and came with me when we got there he said nvm.SO the school year ended and i was still wondering every second what he was going to say to me if my bestfriend hadn't came with me..A few weeks ago we started talking and he said he was thinking and i said about and he said about us togehter.. i said well u know how i feel it's up to you.. then i hadn't talked to him for a couple more weeks because he said he neede time to think.Then last wednesday he said u know that day that i called u over to tell you something well i was going to ask you out.. and i said OMG your kidding and he said no.. would you? and i said seriously and he said yeah seriously so i said yes and everything was soo great that night and the next he said that he really had missed me. i asked him if our relationship was gonna be in the dark or will everyone know and he said i have nothing to hide if anyone has a problem with it F*** them..I thought wow i mean maybe this was really meant to be he treated em soo right for the next to night but on thrsday night he told me that he and his family were going camping for the whole weekend,so he couldn't talk to me for 4 days.. he said that he was really sry and that he was gonna miss me soo much.. we were using webcam because we wanted to see each other and i was in my Pj's my hair up messy and he said.. Your soo pretty, then he said i've wanted to say that all night long.. my heart melted i was soo happy to be with him.SO we spent about an hour saying our Goodbye's..So on Sunday night i was sooo happy that he would be home and we could talk..but i never heard from him..Monday..excited again never heard from him..Tuesday never heard from him.. Now i'm kinda scared and i don't know what to do.. What if he thinks he made a mistake or something.. I mean it could be just a miscomunication.. I just don't know what to think plz help a confused Gal.. thanx!!! Advice
Pick up the phone and call him.

Maybe he wants you to be the one who calls sometimes instead of him.

Maybe he met a girl and kissed her and now feels guilty. Try to find this out because it will get in way of your relationship.

As you said it could be a miscommunication.

You won't find out unless you call him.

Hope this helps!

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