I am sure everything I heard is true, I just want him to tell me the truth

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a boyfriend, now my fiancee, who owns half a bar with someone. Our relationship was going well, til one day he decides to treat me terrible. I would go up to his bar, and it would sometimes take him 4 hours to even say hi. And he didn't treat me like I was with him at all!! I noticed him and the bartender getting pretty flirty in front of me and I started getting my womenly gut feelings. Then, I started hearing from people that they were dating and other things. I even heard it from the other owners girlfriend. Everytime I ask him about it, he blows up. Lies to my face about it. My best friends brother even saw him!! We have been together for 2 years and have an 11 month old daughter together. I have been nothing but sweet,faithful caring, and trusting to him. I am sure everything I heard is true, I just want him to tell me the truth. I am hurting bad, I can't sleep at night, how do I get him to tell me the truth???

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It's really difficult to get someone to tell the truth when all they do is lie about it.

Try to get some more specific details about their affair from someone who would be willing to repeat it in front of your boyfriend. That's about the only way you might get the truth out of him.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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