but the biggest PROBLEM now is that HE IS DATING SOMEONE NEW

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello,

I stayed with my ex-guy for about 2-3 months then we broke up and then I found out that I WAS PREGNANT, after he knew, he told me to abort it coz we broke up, I did not agree to it but then in my 3rd months of pregnancy, I think I lost my child because of my depression, that time, my ex avoided me for about 3 months, he did not wish to meet me at all and did not care when I had miscarriaged.

I cried like mad for the rest 3 months, I tried to contact him by SMS/mails but not to avail, but then one day, he started to reply my SMS/mails eventhough I know that he has found someone NEW, so now, I changed my behaviour, I used to cry and depressed but then I learnt a lot from my friends ways to get my ex back.

I changed totally, I be-friends with him, I stop mourning and picked up my confidence, I think he was surprised to notice my 'changes' and now, we keep in touch by SMS/mails everyday, recently (since 2 months ago) he told me many times that HE IS SO SAD coz he loves our late child also, he cares to me when i sick, he will advice me to drink medicine for example, and he helped me finacially when I needed help to pay my medical bills (he spent quite a lot to pay my hospital bills, and when I had miscarriaged last time, he did not even bother to ask my condition)

but the biggest PROBLEM now is that HE IS DATING SOMEONE NEW and this is make me so MAD...and jealous as well...

IS HE PLAYING GAME WITH ME OR IS IT A 'SIGN' THAT I CAN GET HIM BACK ONE DAY? Does he still have any feeling for me, is it CONCERNS that may leads to LOVE OR JUST A PITY ??

I still in love with him dearly and wanna get him back, please advice me...thank u so much

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RomanceClass.com Advice
Continue with your friendship and confidence. This seems to be working well.

It is hard to figure out what his motivation is, but being his friend can only help.

Things seem to be turning your way so enjoy what you can.

Good luck!
George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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