I had taken time off from A, just to clear my mind and to figure what i want

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Hi, its me again. So according to you, i love neither...im just attached to both A and R. But A is miles away!! How much can i be attached to him? I only get to see him once in 3 to 4 months...for about a week. I know R is closer to me but i do have issues, as i said before, our parents are not happy with us dating. But in the case of A, they fully support me. I had taken time off from A, just to clear my mind and to figure what i want. And, i realize, i missed him alot while we took a break. I feel, since A is not here close to me, i tend to lean on R. What do you think? And if it is just an attachment i have with A, then why did i bother going through a long distance relationship for 9 mths? With the time difference, why did i run my errands in such a way that I had time to talk to him when he is home? Soon, in 2 weeks I am going overseas, tp pursue my masters. Will that help me get R out of my system? What do you think they have for me? Is it love? Waiting for your reply...thanks.

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I still don't sense that you love either one

It now seems that you care for A more than R. And since you are moving for your masters R's current nearness won't make much difference.

You haven't told me enough about A and R for me to have an opinion about whether they love you or not.

Good luck!
George



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