Her family accepted me as family and I have to let that go

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok I had the nerve to tell my ex-gf off, calling her a coward (breaking up and email) and selfish and fake. And the next day i threw away her stuff including her favorite stuffed animal and rubbed that in thru text . What got me going was that she never grieved over the breakup, she made it seem like it was fine. She never had any alone time and partyin was cool to her. I know shell never come back in the near future and that is fine with me. But she said she can never hate me (doubt that now). I know i have to get my life in order cuz right now things are looking up. Its a weird happy, prolly cuz i have not experienced it in about a month. George im really sorry that i annoyed the sh*t out of u writing so many times. But you were a great help. I want to know for the last time writing be4 i move on if she will ever grieve and actually miss me in the future and realize how much she really did hurt me. My friends say it will be when she is alone, but i dunno and i dont care. I know i cant be friends with her now cuz i still love her, i just dont like her now and cant stand her and i bet she cant stand me. Do i see a future with me and her? Not now and not in the near future but who knows the long-term future holds. just let the water spill over the damn and we will see how things go. Her family accepted me as family and I have to let that go too, as well as them. Must be they saw something great for their daughter. Again thank you George and i promise this will be the last time.

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I wish you well in whatever the future holds.

From the way you described it, it is doubtful that you two will get back together, but stranger things have happened.

Sorry about the additional pain of breaking up with her family.

Best wishes! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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