Getting Kissed

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
k i have never got kissed on the lips b 4 and im going on my first date. what should i do?

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RomanceClass.com Advice
First, never assume you will or will not be kissed. Kissing and touching is all about two people who BOTH willingly want this action and are comfortable with it. So what goes on during a date is what feels comfortable.

Hopefully you guys have already been hugging hello/goodbye before you launch into kissing. You need to be comfortable with TOUCH before you move on to kissing-touch. So work on the hugging part if you haven't yet.

Then usually it's a hand-kiss or cheek-kiss that comes next, the starting of lip contact. So that would be the next stage.

Then lip to lip is next. It's the same as a cheek kiss, but on the lips. So soft and tender, touching.

None of these are "tricky" or scary - they're all about trusting each other with touch and relishing that trust.

-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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