I can give her kids and he can't because he had a vasectomy and she really wants kids.

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hello, I'm 28 years old and had been with my girlfriend for 5 months. About one month ago we decided to see other people. So for the past three weeks she has gone out with this other guy. I told her I couldn't be with her anymore if she continued to see him and she told me that she couldn't give me 100%. So I broke it off. Only now after a week of being broke up I've recently found out that he is now her boyfriend. Here is the thing I know she cares about me deeply, and there is one thing that this guy can't offer her that I can. I can give her kids and he can't because he had a vasectomy and she really wants kids. Do you see their relationship lasting much longer? Right now it seems that they are so lovey dovey. I know I must move on but I'm hoping that she may be calling shortly. Thanks for any help.

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If she has strong feelings for you, there is a good chance she will come back to you.

It's doubtful she will stay with this new boyfriend since she wants kids.

The only question is whether she will come back to you if she breaks up with him. My advice is to stay close to her as a friend. Call once a week to see how she is doing but don't overdo any conversation about your relationship. Keep the phone call to 15 mins.

Good luck! George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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