The problem is she is older than me and she has a bf

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi,

Can u please give me advice on this issue i have.

A female friend since childhood
-1 year older than me
=having a bf of 5 years
-talked about breaking up with me but dont want to
sacrify the relationship of 5 years
-just getting closer to her for 3 month
-spent time together everyday either in her house or
at school... much more than her bf
-her bf to her is irresponsible
-he doesn't come to her house anymore just she comes
to his house everyday after work
-she knows his family every well though
-we eat together everyday, laught together, care for each
other so much
-she told me she loves me once but i didn't say i love u
back!! regret
-she likes it when i hug her
-i feel she wants to kiss me allot the time, me too but
have to courage
-she knows that i love her, i know that she love me too
-she asks me to come to her house EVERYDAYYYYY to hang
out with her
-I'm falling for her so badddddddddddddddd
-she said I'm like her sister 3 times, im like her
boyfriend 1 time, said she would go out with me if
im a little musclar, said im a down to earth person,
i'll find a great women one day
-said i got pretty eyes and lips and handsome
-once i remember she said I'm the nicest person she has ever met and she wanted to cry ... i know she loves me right there

Well i love her so much and dont know wat to do can u help me ... The problem is she is older than me and she has a bf. Sometime i just want to make her seriously mad n get away from her. You think that good? ... i dont want to seduce her to make her break up with her bf. The problem is im very hurt to face her EVERYDAY! I'm so in love with her.

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RomanceClass.com Advice
You need to talk this out with her.

Tell her that you love her and see what she says.

Age is not a problem unless you live in a culture where it is very important. In the U.S. it isn't a problem.

She has to decide what to do with her boyfriend. If you tell her you love her and she loves you then she might want to say good-bye to her boyfriend. But, as you said, she might not want to lose a five year relationship.

Have a long trusting, honest and caring conversation with her as soon as possible.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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