He's not yet ready for a tied up relationship..

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hes not yet ready for a tied up relatinship..

my friend introduced me to his officemate who just broke up from his 9 yr live in partner. we get along well & enjoy each others company. he told me when we first met he felt love at first.he was very sweet, he always tell nice things about me, what he likes about me... so i thought everything was going okay between us. i asked him if he really was over w/ his ex & he told me he's moved on. and thank me for coming into his life. so everytime were together i cant help but fall for him. i can see that he's really honest & sincere about his feelings. until one morning he told he wanted to say something. and to my surprised he told that he doesnt have the feelings he used to have for me months ago and that why all the good feelings he has for me has gone away. i asked him if i did something wrong, but he told me the problem is not w/ me but w/ him. he told me maybe hes not yet ready for tied up relationship. he was just beginning to enjoy his freedom. i really felt so bad coz i really i like him & i think i love him already. what can i do i want him back, i want his company, i want to be w/ him, i want to spend my days w/ him... i miss him so badly. he told me maybe we can take it a bit slowly. do you think he still like me, is there still hope for us to be together again?

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It seems he still likes you but wants to take it slowly. Your best bet is to contact him once a week to see how he is doing, to let him know you still care, and to maintain contact. Don't talk about your relationship. Be cheerful and keep the call to 15 mins. This will give him the space and slow pace that he needs and also give you the contact you need.

Time may bring him back to you.

I hope so! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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