I am shy and I feel like I am going to lose my mind and do something stupid
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Malei am having some girl trouble i really like this girl but i can't talk to her because i am shy and i feel like i am going to lose my mind and do something stupid do you have any other ideas for me other than writing her a note and to be honest with you i don't know any of her friends
RomanceClass.com AdviceBecome her friend.
Everytime you see her, say Hi plus her name and also give her a big smile.
Pretty soon she will say Hi and smile back. Everyone likes to be recognized. So don't be shy about it. Later, say "How are you doing?" and she will say fine thanks and maybe ask you how you are doing and you say "fine"
Pretty soon you can start having conversations with her and that may lead to romance with her.
You won't do anything stupid because it is so easy to do. And, besides she may be as nervous as you are.
Keep pitching! George
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