I'm afraid the reason he's not calling me is the time he called and it was short and awkward
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old FemaleHello!
I haven't had too much time to look at this website, but from what I can tell the question I'm about to ask hasn't yet been answered. I think it's because it's fairly specific.
Ok here I go...
I really like a boy and we went out with a couple of friends one day (all of which were girls) and they all had to go home (except for him and I). So we went to see a movie and we cuddled and everything and later that night he dared me to make out with him. I don't know if I should or shouldn't have, but I said "why not" and we did for about an hour.
Well for the rest of the week we didn't see much of each other so I called him and asked him if he wanted to hang out again. He said yes and we went to see another movie and we cuddled again, then we went to a theme park and cuddled and then made out for about 20 min. We seemed to have a pretty good time and everything, but the next day when he called and told me he was grounded, we talked for about 10 minutes and we said goodbye, but it felt very unfulfilling. And then I saw him today at school and it seemed slightly awkward like we didn't have a whole lot to say to each other and we won't be able to hang out personally for a whole month!
Our last day of school is tomorrow (until Monday so a four day weekend) and he doesn't seem to really make an effort to come up to me. Like I really want to see him and call him, but I don't want to be the only one who tries to do something. And I'm afraid the only reason why he's not trying to call me is because of the time he called and it was short and awkward.
I really want to keep this going because when we're together (away from school) we seem to get along perfectly and there's so much flirting going on, but I don't know if he likes me too or if it's just me or what...I don't know.
If you can help I will be very...happy and grateful!
Thank you!
RomanceClass.com AdviceHe is probably pretty miserable about being grounded so he would appreciate calls from you. Give him a few calls and see how that goes. Maybe the awkward call was just a one time deal.
It sounds like he likes you and maybe just doesn't know how to act at school. Again, you can take the lead if you want to.
Before you know it a month will be over and you two can see each other again away from school. Hope this works out for you.
Good luck! George
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