It's only 3 weeks till xmas and I want her back so bad

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
me and my girlfreind of a year and a half broke up about 5 weeks ago. we
had a huge fight at the gym in front of people and have not tlaked since.
i tried calling her 4 or 5 times right after it happend and she would not
answer or call me back. so i waited about another 10 days and called her
and left her a casual whats up message again she never called back and did
not answer. now at that time it had been 3 weeks of me calling and her not
answering or responding. now about 3 or 4 days go by from the time i
called and shes on instant messanger leaving away messages about how shes
goen to a huge party and a concert and how shes out for the night. i mean
she never does stuff like that. i did not react at all. then after about 2
days of doing that she sends me an instant message of a plus sign and that
was it again i did not respond. then 2 days after that she shows up at the
gym at the time i always go. i found that odd becasue for a monthe of us
not tlaking she hadnt gone once at that time and even when we were
together usually didnt go at that time. so again i ignored her and didnt
say a word to her. so then again the away messages started accpet this
time she said she was in lust for someone not love. i thought that was
real corny i mean shes 21 yrs old. my question is why is she doing that is
she doing these things to ge tmy attention to get me back or to get me to
call her or just to piss me off and get a reaction out of me. i mean if
shes so fine how come she has to write away messages on instant messanger.
now i dont no what to do should i keep ignoring her or should i call. i dont know if she was doing those things becasue she wants me bakc or what. now its only 3 weeks till xmas and i want her back so bad. please help

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RomanceClass.com Advice
When she makes overtures to you you should respond.

So if she comes to the club say "hi" and if she sends you a "plus" then send her a "plus"

You better get busy if you want to beat Christmas. If you make any progress at all with her try out this idea if you want to: on the 14th of Dec send a small wrapped gift (a chocolate santa maybe) and write on the tag "1st day of Christmas" on the 15th send two of something little and write 2nd day of Christmas etc until on Dec 25 you will give her 12 (candycanes or if you are rich 12 pearls :) I bet by Christmas she will be back in your arms.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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