He said I'm a good person but he doesn't want to go out with me

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok, for starters, im 13. and theres this guy i like, but i never told him. hes really nice and stuff, but i knew he would never like me cause im not pretty and stuff. the thing is, i told a lot of people about him and someobdy i hated found out, but he said he would be quiet. but yesterday my friend said to the guy i like that she knows someobdy who liked him. he said yeah and then my name. then my friend was surprised that he knew, but she pretended like she was just shocked that i liked him. she said she likes you? and he said yeah. my friend said she was talking about someone else. she asked if he would go out with me, and he said im a good person but he doesnt want to go out with me. i was afraid that when he found out, he'd think i was weird or be embarrassed and things would be akward between us, but i guess hes known about it for a while and hes been acting normally. so what do i do now? i really like him and want to out with him, but he doesnt. help!!!

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RomanceClass.com Advice
First thing to do is to make friends with him.

Doing this is pretty easy. All you have to do is greet him everyday whenever you meet him in the hallway. Look him in the eyes and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus his name, and give him a big smile.

Keep doing this until you feel comfortable enough to ask him how is doing and later on chatting with him. If he is a nice person he will be sure to like the attention you are giving him. Then you could ask him out.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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