I'm 14 years of age, and completely in love with a 20 year old man
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I'm 14 years of age, and completely in love with a 20 year old man. He is amazing. We have mutual friends through which we met, and now talk all the time on the net. I know its strange that our ages differ so much. We both have depression and anxiety disorders, and aren't so well understood by others. I rarely get to see him. And I can't tell my parents we're in love, because of the age difference, they would not approve. He's leaving in a year to finnish his marine biology degree, and I really want to be with him before him. He's less experienced romantically than me, and I'd really love to give him his first kiss before him leaving. Any suggestions on seeing him, or letting my parents know?
You are too young to be seeing a 20 year old man.
Tell your parents and it will be over immediately. You may be more mature than he is, but that just makes it worse. You should not be interacting with someone who is so old yet so immature. He is a loser and you are too young to realize it. He is taking advantage of your inexperience in life.
This advice is not happy news for you, but it is the very best advice I have to offer you.
Good luck! George
p.s. a 20 year old dating a 14 year old could lead to legal troubles for him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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