If your a good listener and ask her what her favorite thing in the whole world to do is she will do the talking. Everyone likes people who let them talk about their passions. Just say, "You,dont'say" "Really" "Well I'll be darned" "That's amazing" "Your encredible" "I never realized" "Tell me more"
"this is facinating" "How do you know all this?" All the people at parties that have a crowd around them talk this way. They have learned the verbal skill to captivate their audience. They never say much, but they learn a lot and they are very popular. That is because people are complimented that someone is interested enough to listen to them.
