Hi, mma7402, and welcome. In the romance section, several times I have seen references to "insight." While it is true that some seem to have more insight, a lot of it comes from really "listening" to others and caring, but most of it comes from living through things of life. You seem to have both the "innate" insight, and (possibly) experience in life that gives you insight into a shy person's head and heart.
A shy person can be an intensely feeling and loyal friend and lover, and can even learn to open up with others. Butterflies did not look as attractive and carefree in their caterpillar stage.
Hope to read more of your posts.
