I actually just chat with him on YM last night. We didn’t seem to be on the same page & I would hate for guys to think that I’m desperate or anything so I just told him maybe it’s better off for us just to stop here.
Being so busy nowadays, I don’t want to waste my time & emotion investing on someone who’s not ready to date exclusively. Exclusive to me doesn’t need to be all serious, but at least only the 2 of us getting to know each other better, and not dating other people at the same time. Is it unrealistic for wanting to date someone who can be “bad”, but mature & serious in dating at the same time? This is just so hard to find lol.
I used to be so much more traditional in my values & beliefs back then. I’m actually loosening up a lot now already. It definitely can make me feel more relax & happy, but the stress & depression now mainly come from meeting the wrong guy at the wrong time :crazy:
