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Just a little info from me on this me and my fiance have been together 10 years back in april 2007 she decided that she was not happy anymore and left me we stayed in contact i gave her the space she desired yes i was upset and hurt we had been together then for 9 years i could not figure out where i went wrong i even actually moved on with my life and met someone else and dated for about a month but knew i could not move on because i still loved nikki and i talked to the new girl and she understood completely which was a relief cause i did not want to hurt someone else the same way i had been hurt well in august of 2007 nikki got sick and was hospitalized and i was there by her side each day she was there i even took a personal leave from work to be by her side she realized then just how much i loved her and why she had been with me for so many years and she asked me to go back with her and be her soulmate for the rest of our lives relationships are great but can be hurtful and twisted until you find that right one and when you find him or her you know it... So good luck and do not get discourage and i am sure you have heard the saying 100's of times there are plenty of fish in the sea and when you catch the right one deep down you will know it !


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if your truely were a good mate and ths happens be glad,it happen before the I dos.move on,plenty of women are looking for a good man.


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is that a good thingg???

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yea, i had a boyfriend who left me, and i tried and called, adn did everything i could for a whole month, but when i finally gave up he then wanted me back, but we dated alttle after that,b ut i look now and i know hes not the one,now i happy with my lover and a baby, and im happy! she just looks like she may have found someone else, and idk why shes texting you that when it seems she doesnt want you, she just knows your there waiting, did you reply to the message?


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Originally Posted By: Basketballdude3
is that a good thingg???

I don't know.
What do you think?

Personally, if you still care for her, I think that you should perhaps ask her what is going on. If you are going to keep loving her from a distance anyway, then you really need to know what she is doing and if you can rely on her feelings.

It may be that you can get back together and be happy ~ but I think that you need to be sure of her feelings.


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no i didnt reply to her txt msg but she has told me she still have her feelings for me

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you have to peretend you dont care anymore, cause if you do she knows she still has you and can play @ with you, or come back when she feels like it, making you feel used, you did a good thing not replying, i know its hard, you probably got excited


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but if i pretend to dont care then her feelings will go away..?

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I'm not sure that you should 'pretend', exactly, but you need to sort out what she really wants and thinks and not just allow her to assume that you are hanging around waiting for her ~ while she's off with other lads.

And ask yourself what you really want & how you really feel ~ about her and about what has happened.

If you really want her back and she really still loves you, then this might be great; but you need to be sure of her feelings and your own.


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thanks for helping me ouut thooo
but it just seems i miss her more and more everydayy

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