Choose your Arguments Wisely
Each time you argue, it takes a portion of the joy out of your relationship. It also shows a lack of respect for each other, that you cannot sit and discuss an issue without resorting to out-shouting each other. If your partner insists while you're driving in the car that Layla was sung by Cream and not by Derek and the Dominos, it's not worth arguing over right then. Simply say "We'll look it up on Google when we get home."
Being in a relationship should never be about Being Right. It should be about both of you respecting each other and being happy TOGETHER. I'm not saying to be a doormat! But if it is something silly, find a way to agree to resolve it later - when it CAN be resolved easily.
|
|
|
