dont try so hard to get his attention

well when me and ex broke up, i was really depressed becuz i love this boy so much and it hurted that we were not together... i wanted him back so bad that i did anything jus to get his attention, but that only pushed him further away... he also knew that i was trying to get his attention so he started ignoring me more and more... but then one of his friends told me that he said i shouldnt have to work that hard to get his attention, so i stopped trying to get his attention, i stopped walkin past his locker, i even stopped trying to bump into him. so then some weeks later he finally came up and talked to me and told me how much he missed me and how much he love me and want to get back with me. so please do not try so hard to get his attention, it will only make you look DESPERATE!!!!!!