I´m Shy!
Sure, you´re shy. Everyone is shy. The person you´re flirting with is probably shy at times. Accept this, and realize that you´re just out to have fun. Think of this as a fun game to share with someone, and enthusiastically introduce them to it.
Also, like anything else in the world, you´re nervous the first time, but with practice it becomes easier and easier. Flirt in places you feel comfortable - flirt with a friend of the opposite sex, or even practice on your same-sex friends. If your flirtatious behavior comes naturally, you´ll be far less shy about it.
Even shyness is flirtatious! Think of medieval maidens peering from beneath their long hair, or men leaving roses because they´re too shy to talk to the girl. Think of your shyness as an asset, as something which will help draw your partner to you.
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