Comparing Lovers
What do you do if your partner asks how he/she compares to someone from your past, and the comparison is unfavorable?
No person can ever be great at every single thing. It can easily happen that your current lover is fantastic at many things, but is simply not as good as previous lovers in certain areas. You want to phrase this constructively, though.
First off, never lie and claim your lover is much better. Itīs always better to tell the truth, but in a constructive way. Point out the things your lover *is* better at, and if thereīs something in particular your lover is not very good at, say playfully that maybe you both should practice at "ZZZZ", whatever it is.
After a few sessions, with you providing guidance and helpful comments, your currently lover might be able to far outshine your partners of the past!
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