Setting the Scene A breakup is usually not a pleasant affair. Don´t have the "goodbye" talk in the middle of a restaurant, or at a friend´s house. Find a quiet place where you both feel relatively comfortable, and spend time to talk about it. Don´t just say "I´ve decided I don´t like you any more - goodbye" and run out the door. Spend some time finding closure - admitting that you just don´t care for the other person, and that it´s best for you both to move on and find someone that can truly compliment you. After all, your ex won´t want to be with someone who doesn´t love him or her, so this is a good thing for you both. It won´t be easy, and will probably be sad and anger-filled for you both. However, having this good closure will make the healing process much, much easier. www.romanceclass.com