Finish one before starting another
It can be very tempting, as one relationship starts to fade, to start another as a "safety net". That way you´re set whether or not the current relationship works out.
Don´t do it. By spending time with someone else, you are being completely unfair to the person who *is* your current partner. Either work with them to make the relationship prosper, or sit and talk with them and decide to call it quits. It´s not fair to anyone, yourself included, to two-time a person you are in a relationship with.
You´ll also never really know if it was the second person you were truly attracted to, or if it was partially a convenient way to get out of your current relationship that you did not wish to work on any more.
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