Restlessness
Sometimes people break up because they´re restless - the current relationship is too calm or easy, and they want something new and different. After getting out into the world, they often find that new isn´t necessarily better, and that they were actually much happier in that relationship.
If you find yourself in this situation, be sure that you really have finished with the wanderlust, and don´t have any remnants lurking in your soul. If you get back into the relationship, only to want to leave again in a while, you´re really hurting this person who you keep taking and leaving behind. If you´re truly sure you´re ready to commit, then by all means, pledge your love! But if it´s just easy to ´come home´ while you think about your next adventure, be fair to both of you and do that planning while leaving your partner free to find someone else.
Make sure you give yourself plenty of time to be fully and completely ready to "Try again" before you do.
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