Look At It From Both Sides!
I never cheated on anyone until last night and I feel terrible...I really dont know what to do at this point. But I will say this. All you people out there that have been cheated on, what were you doing before your partner cheated on you? There are some people out there that will cheat just cause they dont care, but what about the girlfriends and boyfriends that have been ignored and neglected? I know my man is a decent hard working loving man for the most part. I wont sit here and say it was right for me to cheat but for months I've been alone in this relationship supporting him and bearing all of my emotional stress as well as his and not getting the same support consistantly. I know that youre saying that if I felt that way I shouldve just broken up with my partner but things would get amazingly better and then they would get so bad. Two weeks before I cheated we had a dispute and a part of me just broke down. What I'm trying to stress here is that you cant use general rules for this type of situation cause everyones relationship is different. Everyone doesnt have the same variables, And in most cases the cheating person in the relationship has been hurting long before they made the mistake of cheating in the first place. If you condem the one you love so quickly and harshly then you never loved them at all.
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