If cheating is caught on time, leave him/her!!
I was cheated on when I was engaged, he cried his eyes out, said sorry, that he would never do it again, that he would kill himself if I left him. So I didn't forget, didn't totally forgive, but gave him a chance. And I did "stupid me" because he was my first and only and I feared having to give myself to someone else. If at that time we had not been intimate I would have left him. Now we are married and have a 10 month old son together and I just found out that again he cheated on me. He denies sleeping with any other woman but he constantly called her "she is just a friend" he said. A "friend" he only called when I was not around. Now I hate myself for not leaving him the first time, he hurt me again but now our relationship is more complicated. I don't know how I will be towards him now, can't figure out a way to start all over again but I have decided to give him one last chance, I think my son deserves one chance to grow up with his father. I will give him this last chance and I will make it clear that if it ever happens again, he leaves, we get divorced and no excuses, no pleadings, no more changes. Like they say "the third is the charm".
My advise for those who are just dating someone and find out your partner is cheating. Leave him or leave her!! It's likely that once a cheater, always a cheater!! They will change for a while but they'll eventually forget all about the incident and will do it again. If you catch it in time, save yourself future heartache, you'll feel stupid and upset at yourself like me for not leaving him when the relationship was simpler.
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